Gigi Engle β€” The Rules of BDSM, Trying Out Role Play, The World of Alien Dildos, Orgasms, Pleasure and More – #18

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by Ellie Goode

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If Gigi Engle had a dollar for every time someone said ‘I’m into some kinky stuff,’ she’d be richer than Jeff Bezos.

Gigi is a sexpert extraordinaire.

She’s a sex educator, sex writer, psychotherapist in training, and lead sex expert at 3Fun.

Her advice is like foreplay for your brain.

Whether you’re into alien dildos, spanking, rope play, or wedgie fantasies (the jock and the nerd, anyone?) – Gigi has seen it all.

And … she’s probably written an article about it too.

Gigi started out as a journalist, working for Elite Daily back when they had only 30 employees.

She now works as a freelance sex educator and writer, for Cosmo, Vogue, Allure, Marie Claire,  Elle Magazine, and Women’s Health.

Gigi loves researching and writing about the most ‘out-there’ sexual topics you could imagine.

And she’s super passionate about working with people who want to explore open relationships, BDSM, and crazy sexual fantasies.

Being part of the queer community, Gigi also loves working with the queer, poly, and kink subsets – people who are often shamed by traditional therapists.

She’s a master at helping people untangle their emotional ties when it comes to sex.

Because in BDSM (or any sexual act), safety, consent, and communication are essential.

And of course – having fun.

Sex can be a safe space for adults to play.

You can be curious.

Feel sensations in your body that you never knew existed.

Explore your deepest passions.

Your wildest fantasies.

And let all of your sexual energy flow.

Why?

Because sex improves motivation, creativity, and passion.

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So if you’re suppressing your sexual desires – you’re suppressing a whole lot of good stuff.

Sex helps you set boundaries, get better at asking for what you want, and gives you the confidence to march into your boss’s office and ask for a raise.

Plus, orgasms are good for your health.

Want clear skin, better sleep, and a stronger immune system?

Have an orgasm a day (thanks Gigi!).

Whether you’re vanilla or kinky, Gigi’s insights will make your sex life a whole lot sweeter.

(And more fiery).

Communication is key in any relationship – especially when it comes to discussing your favourite ovipositor (which is out-of-this-world – pun intended 😏).

Gigi Engle helps her clients navigate the psychological aspects of BDSM and power play.

Because maybe you’re into being dominated and your partner isn’t.

Or maybe your partner wants to be tied up and whipped, and you’re not sure how to handle it.

Gigi helps couples negotiate their sexual fantasies – and encourages her clients to create “Yes/No/Maybe” lists of what they’re comfortable with in the bedroom.

Learning to negotiate in the bedroom leads to better negotiations in life.

Gigi is also a resident sex expert for 3Fun – the threesome dating app.

She’s helped countless individuals and couples navigate the complexities of open relationships and threesomes.

Because there can be bumps in the road when exploring kink and open relationships.

So, what’s the takeaway from all of this? That pleasure is important.

That creativity, passion, and playfulness are vital to our wellbeing.

And that sex = the foundation upon which our lives are built.

So listen to this episode, explore your sexual fantasies, and never be afraid to embrace your authentic self.

And maybe all that spanking will give you the confidence you ask for that raise…

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Show Notes – You’ll Discover

  • More about sex than your high school health teacher ever cared to share with you
  • The importance of self-exploration, knowing your own body, and the ins and outs of healthy BDSM and kink play πŸ‘ πŸ†
  • How to negotiate safe boundaries with your partner
  • Balancing the power dynamics between a submissive and a dominant ⛓️
  • How to bring playful kink into the bedroom and why safety is super important
  • The surprising benefits of sex on your mental health, creativity, and confidence 🀩
  • What an ‘omnipositor” is…

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Ellie Goode β€” Host of the Provocative “Sex, Money & Rage Podcast, Nervous System Junkie, and Plant Psychonaut πŸŒΏ

I created Sex, Money & Rage to talk about everything that’s taboo. BDSM. Plant medicine. Healthy Rage. Kink. Emotions. Boundaries. Money issues. Less thinking, more feeling. How to get into your body and silence your overactive mind.

Sex, Money & Rage provides straight-up, powerful nervous system tools to help you dominate life’s toughest moments.

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